Hot and Beautiful Older Women from Asia!
Increasing numbers of men are choosing second time around dating as a way of making their lives have more meaning. So if you’re an older guy then what are your chances of finding a hot older woman? And what does Asia offer in terms of beautiful mature women seeking Western husbands?
In this article I’ll suggest what sort of age difference is good in a relationship between a Western man and an Asian woman. Plus I’ll show you some of the gotchas in pursuing a relationship with an attractive mature Asian lady.
How Old or Young Should You Go?
So what’s a good age difference when you want to date an older woman from Asia?
Conventional wisdom says to halve your age then add seven years. This is the youngest age of lady that you should date. From my own experiences this calculation does seem to work very well.
Having said that, the older a lady gets the less interest generally shown in her on dating sites. Single older men are are hot commodity in any country!
You’ll also usually find that if you’re in your 50′s, 60′s or even 70′s then you can comfortably date Asian women in the 36-50 age range.
It varies a little by country as well. It’s harder to find a much younger Japanese wife, slightly easier in China, and much easier in Thailand or the Philippines.
Which Country is Best for Hot Older Women?
So which Asian country is best for the hottest older women?
The Philippines is good if you want a good choice of older women. Since so many guys like the 20-30 year old Filipinas, the older women on chat sites tend to get very little interest shown in them. Older Philippines women can make great wives. Just bear in mind that they do tend to put on a fair bit of weight later in life – this is the curse of their Spanish genes, and it’s much the same in the Hispanic and Latin American world.
- Thailand is another good choice. Thai women don’t always age so well though, so if you’re very interested in looks then you might struggle to find a hot older woman in Thailand.
- If you’ve got enough money to live in Japan then this is an interesting choice. Older Japanese women look extremely elegant, and they often maintain an impressive level of health and fitness in later life. I remember watching a TV documentary about some Japanese women diving from a boat, and all the women were in their 70′s and even 80′s.
- I’d argue that Chinese women are the best older Asian women if you want a woman who will look good forever. Having met or seen photos of my potential Chinese mother-in-laws I have to say that many of them looked years younger than their true ages. One downside to Chinese women is that their voices can get quite harsh in later life. As you’ll be nagged by that voice an awful lot then this is something to be wary of.
Problems with Dating Beautiful Older Women
Three problems you’ll probably face with beautiful older women from Asia are:
- The Language barrier
- Cultural change
Don’t underestimate the language barrier – it’s very significant. Older Asian women don’t tend to speak such good English as their daughters do. While there are some exceptions to the rule, the type of women USA and Canadian men tend to prefer as more mature Asian brides rarely speak English.
Furthermore, it’s been my experience that older women from Asia tend to find it hard to learn English. And if you’re an older guy you might struggle to learn a new Asian language. I remember visiting an older guy and his Chinese wife. Even after a year of marriage they appeared to have a significant language barrier between them.
If you worry about the language barrier then try to look for a Thai or Chinese woman who speaks reasonable English. Or head to the Philippines where English is more widely spoken, and the native languages such as Tagalog or Cebuano are much more like English than either Thai or Mandarin Chinese are.
On top of the language barrier, remember there are significant cultural differences between the USA, Canada, Europe and Australia and Asia. While inter-cultural relationships are a wonderful thing, remember that an older woman will find it harder to adjust – especially if you want her to come and live with you in your country.
Finally you’ll find that many of the older ladies on Asian dating websites have significant baggage. Often this is in the form of kids. Generally speaking it’s easier to choose an older lady whose kids have already left home and found partners of their own. So choosing a lady in the 45-50 age range is probably a little safer.
Don’t shy away from the single moms on Asian dating sites though. Often they make great wives for Western men! For one thing you know that they’re likely to be experienced at having a man around the house. For another, these ladies are often overlooked by many guys, so they might appreciate your interest in them a whole lot more.
So if you’re an older guy looking for love later in life, then those hot and beautiful older women from Asia could be just what’s missing in your life.
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